
Date: Tuesday, June 16, 2009, 2:26 pm By: Jackie Jones, BlackAmericaWeb.com
Today we can now begin to leverage the success of others in our own life. We should not become complacent, but should move the process forward with doing our part to continue the change.
Date: Tuesday, June 16, 2009, 2:26 pm By: Jackie Jones, BlackAmericaWeb.com
I'm about to talk to you like I talk to my boys! You all know what I'm talking about.
Does the boy have swagger or what? He's got a little sumthin sumthin going on. He's got that "What" behind him. He's got that "Yeah" "Yeeeeah" with his walk. Can you imagine the conversations he must have with his boys? It might go something like this.
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His boy – Do you feel like the man B?
Pres B – I do. I'm just doing what I do. You feel me?
His boy – I feel you. But does it get hard when you get attacked from the front, the back, and every other direction?
Pres B- C'mon man! It's been hard for us from day one if you're looking at it from that perspective. I don't see it any worse than growing up with an assumptive target on my back. You know that target. The target of people saying that I'm going to fail, he's from a broken home, so he's definitely going to fail, blah blah blah. Listen, I'm trying to change the game. I can now affect the game, and more importantly, I'm going to keep my word. And if you think it's cocky, then it's what it is. I look at it as being confident with what I do and how I do it.
His boy – I hear ya bra!
Ok. I took some creative liberty on the dialog, but I believe that that's how it goes. President Obama has that Swagger. He also has the "IT" thing too. However, I'll talk about the "IT" thing in my next blog (Not everyone has the "IT" factor) because only a few have that "IT" factor. Ali had "IT.," Lena Horne had "IT.," Ella Fitzgerald had "IT," Joe Namath had "IT," Dr. King had "IT," Jordan has "IT." Denzel has "IT," Collin Powell has "IT," Tom Brady has "IT"…and come on, you know Bill Clinton has "IT." Again, we'll handle the "IT" factor in my next blog.
Let's talk a little bit about swagger.
Swagger – Definition: Swaggering manner, conduct, or walk; ostentatious display of arrogance and conceit
The swagger is not over-rated, and a lot of people have it. I say that because in my community growing up, it was prevalent. While playing sports, it was so prevalent that you wanted to sometimes knock it out the person who had it because sometimes they couldn't back it up. I certainly recognize it when it's in my face; I think we all do. We all talk about these people. I'm not sure if you need substance, credibility, or a track record for success, but you need confidence. Having said that, President Obama has the substance, credibility, and track record to back it up (at least he has that somthin somthin that allows us to think that he has all of that).
Let me give you an example of some people in the media that has that swagger. Kanya West, Puffy, Lil Wayne, Britney Spears, Lebron James, Kobe Bryant, Beyonce, Kid Rock, just to name a few…you get my point, right? Some are worthy of the swagger, and some aren't.
President Obama is certainly worthy of the swagger. I can really identify with him and how he conducts himself in public. It's a trip how easy it is to recognize the ways of another brotha in oneself. I notice how he addresses the common folk, politicians, and international partners. He invites them in. I see him being inclusive in many as many cases. Inclusive seemed to be a natural gesture within my community growing up. I recall always being able to expand friendships and gatherings based on including all who were present, who may have been Black, White, Asian, Hispanic, etc. They all were welcome. This was especially true with my parents and parent's friends. Thus, I see that thing in President Obama, that inclusive thing.
That swagger he has is just how he rolls (stealing a phrase from the younger generation). My man even got his swerve going-on when he walks down the step of Air Force One. C'mon…you'll know exactly what I'm talking about! Democrats, Republicans, Independents, whatever your party affiliation, you know exactly what I'm talking about.
This article was written by Sean Jensen who covers the NFL for the St. Paul Pioneer Press. My goal is to expose the good that some athletes are doing. This is especially in light of all of the negative publicity that today's athlete receives.
Other than visiting his native Mexico, Jose Mendoza had never traveled outside of California.
So Mendoza figured he was being punk'd when Regina Jackson, the executive director of the East Oakland Youth Development Center, gauged his interest in an all-expenses paid trip to New York.
He would stay in his first hotel, in Times Square. He would tour several colleges, including Columbia and Julliard. And he would eat at restaurants and meet former President Bill Clinton.
"I didn't think it was going to be real," said Mendoza, 17. "To go to New York for a few days? I was like, 'Whoa.' "
It was real. Thanks to Nnamdi Asomugha.
Mendoza and nine other high school students from Oakland, Calif., can credit the Oakland Raiders' two-time All-Pro cornerback, who funds and plans the annual Asomugha College Tour through the East Oakland Youth Development Center.
Oh, and all of the programs are free.
Chosen by the Raiders late in the first round of the 2003 NFL draft, Asomugha has come to know Oakland well. He empathized with the challenges facing students in situations reminiscent of his own growing up. Oakland had the fifth-highest crime rate of any U.S. city last year, according to publisher CQ Press. In March, a gunman killed four police officers in two separate incidents in east Oakland.
Probably due to his own background.
"They are complete aberrations to their surroundings," he said.
So Asomugha helps, but it's not about handouts. The kids have to earn it.
"But he was like a normal person."
And he made the students feel special.
In 2008, he and Jackson took six students to Boston, where they visited several colleges, including Harvard and MIT, attended a jazz showcase at the Berklee College of Music and watched the Boston Celtics play.
This year's trip, though, topped them all.
"For him to actually do this for us," Garrick said, "it's an honor, and I really appreciate it."
"He gave us advice for the future," Garrick said.
The trips have impacted the students differently.
Alejandra Paredes, 16, who has a 4.1 GPA., had never flown on an airplane.
Garrick was impressed by the culture in New York; he wondered if he might someday move there.
"The kids need something like [this] to keep their spirits up."
Still, with the kind of impact Asomugha is trying to make, some attention is inevitable.
Sean Jensen covers the NFL and the Minnesota Vikings for the St. Paul Pioneer Press.
Question- What do you see here on the left? Let me assume some of the answers: 1) A Football Player (s) 2) A strong young man 3) An African American football player 4) A spoiled football player 5) A non-student Football Athlete 6) A non-student Athlete Football Player that probably gets money under the table.
Are you starting to understand the exercise? If not, let me paint the mental picture. Answers- 1) Student-Athlete 2) Top of his Class academically as a pre-med student 3) Community volunteer creating an opportunity for underprivileged kids
Florida State safety Myron Rolle won the Rhodes scholarship just hours before he returned for the second half kick-off of the game against Maryland. During my normal short glimpses at college football, I failed to get the news! I did however receive updates on who is injured, the over-under via the betting line, which kid got suspended/kicked off or jailed, and of course the lead candidate for the Heisman Trophy. Seems like the baseline for achieving that all-mighty goal of viewership is the tantalization of drama and not the feel-good stuff. I also have to mention that it is disheartening to hear all of the heavy negative stuff involving our young African American college athlete, and at the same time have to go to the back of the newspaper in the third column between an article on the local auction, and the dog that won the city's dog of the year award to find this type of positive information. Yes, I am sensitive. I have kids. And I understand that the re-tooling of America starts at home. My hand goes out to the parents of Myron Rolle, it also goes out to those parents that are doing comparable things. Keep it up, because eventually, it will get front-page news! Cut&Paste this link: http://www.cnn.com/video/#/video/us/2008/12/06/lemon.myron.rolle.cnn?iref=videosearch